These last days I've had some relatives desavencias, attitudes to me that I did not like, and I keep them as I do, then I spend it very badly, with the anger over, I hard hours, and a mess in my head: the reason that he did this (justified) against my feelings, resulting in headache and a feeling of earth swallow me, besides not wanting to bumping into that person again for a few days ...... I began to analyze this situation and I said, what the hell are my feelings, do they not have to be taken into account?, does the other person's reasons are more important than mine ?.... and there came the answer, and I feel this point, the consequence of keeping the discrepancy of what I feel me away more than the people I try to understand their reasons, I am isolated, I put on the defensive, I mistrust, discomfort, worse release what happens to me, saying although he did not like, and see if you want to take into account pass a bitter moment whose consequences may be positive for the relationship, makes it more transparent, or you keep my luggage and take the next time. I think the answer is obvious, express what is best for me and the relationship, not the polluter, the free.
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